Basically, I was pushy with you previously, to try to get you jumpstarted and over the hurdle of, making the decision to actively try to do positive things with your husband. To nudge over from WAW, "this relationship is doomed/stale/no good" mode, to being engaged in positive stuff. To get a positive cycle going, where both you, and he, ended up more doing positive things for each other, than negative, or nothing.
it sounds like you are well out of that do-nothing mode now, and so is your husband. I'm very happy for you
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
