Here's something else to add. My W is over 10 days late with her period. I told her if something happened I would be there to support her. She told the OM about it and he was a total azz and cruel to her. He wants nothing to do with a child. He said I am a better man since I would be willing to bring up another man's child, if it turns out to be the case. We are thinking she is late because of stress. So she basically went off the wall about him and said she never wants to talk to him or see him. This was this morning. Now this afternoon she tells me that she had to call him to let him know that someone at work was trying to get him in trouble about something with the company truck. Freking amazing...She was worried I was mad that she talked to him again. This time I was good and was perfectly fine and told her it was fine she talked to him. But in reality I am pizzed. Am I wrong for being mad about this? Here is what she said in email. Remember I did NOT ever question her talking to him again. She brought it all up and I just smiled and went with it.
WIFE: please don't get mad about that. it is work related, nothing about personal stuff, but I don't think either of us deserve what k is doing in the office....... ME:No I'm not mad, I do understand..... WIFE:the reason I tell him is because he knows the whole deal here with K from the beginning...and if something happened we would just have a good laugh because what K did to me was wrong from the get go......I know that person has made me so mad, but that is personal stuff, this is all work related and I feel like I need to watch his back as much as my own....I would not want anyone to lose their job.....that is wrong. can you understand that? ME:Yes deary, I do understand, that's what I had said :-) You don't need to worry. You seem to think that I am mad about it but I'm seriously not.
