Consider that she may just be being kind, and really hoping that you DON'T talk with her about it. She might just feel guilty if she didn't extend herself out to you in that way. And it sounds to me like you told her about the situation (is that true?). If you did, of course it would be kind of her to make that offer. I strongly suggest you NOT go to her to talk about it. Show her that you are strong and are detaching from her, and don't NEED to talk with HER about it. Go to another relative, close friend, C, etc. Just not her! Come on, Heim -- you know that this is the smarter route to take on this situation.
