Rollar Coasters are no longer fun

[Dom R]

Then he got on the phone and told me he has decided it is over with us, he wants a divorce and he wants to be with the OW and their baby on the way. I simply said ok if that is what you want then you can file for divorce because I will not. He said you know I can't afford it and I said then how can you afford an 8th child and he hung up on me.

I think you handled that perfectly

Amy.. keep in mind, that he is, medically speaking, "nuts".

he is literally in a nuthouse.

So, I dont think you should take anything he says now, as any kind of rational, permenant thing