Thank you for your input. I doubt that friend/OW would do it again, but who knows. I have now moved the cordless phone to my side of the bed, just in case it does happen again. At least the hang up calls at work have stopped.
As for where WAH-MLCer is on his journey, not a clue. Would really like to shake the daylights out of him and ask ALL of these questions, but know it would scare him and make him run.
Oh what patience we must have in order to "As If."
All I can say for today - WAH-MLCer has come along way from last year.
<sigh>
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08