Start by reading Michelle's books Divorce Remedy and Divorce Busting and read them over and over. It is very hard and I have been in your shoes. The hardest thing to do and yet the one that seems to work for most people on here is give him space. I was so guilty of crying and begging everytime he came by or called. I am finding that the more I act like I have moved on the better reactions I get. I am dealing with a mental issues with my husband in the fact that he is bipolar and has a bipolar girlfriend so I know it is totally different but I do know that in most of the cases I see letting go seems to bring them back the fastest.
I wish I had some great advice to fix all of this for you but I don't. Read these boards, listen to the advice you get here, read the DR and DB and apply what you learn, take care of you, GAL and start doing things for you. I know this is hard in the beginning it has been 11 weeks for me and I am just now able to start eating but I just enrolled in college and I am taking steps to try to move forward.
Hugs to you and keep us posted.
M 32 H 39 SS 15, SD 12, S11, S9, D7, D6, D4 E/A 02/06 WAS 03/06 RH 05/06 On 07/07 told me he wants to leave again. On 08/11/07 Walked out again.
People say "When God closes a door he opens a window." They forget to tell you "It is hell in the hallway!"
