He left 10/2 and I can barely function-at home or at work. I am bitter and resentful. Kids have been shared - pretty much 2 days home 2 days away. I am so upset I sometimes get the shakes. I cry every day. I barely speak to H when he is at our house. I just can't face him anymore. Neither of us has the $ for divorce. So limbo continues. He has barely taken anything out - just clothes he is using. I have packed some of his stuff but he doesn't take it. I don't bring it up for fear of confrontation. As soon as I get home he leaves, if it is a night I have the kids. Otherwise I come home to an empty house. He still brings them over every morning as I am before school care and he is afterschool. Everyone keeps telling me to "get over it" which is BS, like I could flip a switch after 24 yrs together. Or that it will get better. It has been completely unbearable. I don't even have the strength right now to fight--to bust. I did that already and it didn't work. Is this really what life has become??
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
