I have had enough of the rat and your xh just being their psycho-selves and imposing it on your life and the kids. i know you are d'ed and detached and moved on, but they still have the emotional leash with their antics. i don't think it's funny, amusing - just plain disturbing. you have worked hard to get away from this, it's no longer a part of your life.....so take action to get it that way.
giving your daughter a body image issue. stripping in front of the kids. your xh reading playboy and making comments about boobs in front of them. them dishing out the profanity because you question them taking the kids out of the country.
this is so beyond trashy, it's just too much. and, the more you try to 'take the high road' and deal with them as humans, the more time you give them to make an impression on your kids. that makes me sad.
do what you need.
you treat trash like trash. you treat criminals like criminals.
period.
when we lower our standards, is when we start stripping ourselves of dignity.
