Hang in there. I think the best thing you can do is give her space as hard as it is. I know its hard because I am terrible at it. I often write letters and then just throw them away or someone suggested making a fake email and email them as if it were my H. This sounds insane but it worked because I was actually hitting the send button and letting my thoughts go. I still struggle daily and thank goodness where he is now he can not get incoming calls because it really helps me with the letting go. It is hard and I know it isn't easy for any of us but with time and space you have your best chance at healing.
M 32 H 39 SS 15, SD 12, S11, S9, D7, D6, D4 E/A 02/06 WAS 03/06 RH 05/06 On 07/07 told me he wants to leave again. On 08/11/07 Walked out again.
People say "When God closes a door he opens a window." They forget to tell you "It is hell in the hallway!"
