I so needed to see this. Thanks for the link on the other boards. I realize that while I am trying to be supportive by sending cards and letters and flowers to him at the hospital I am doing what I have always done SUFFOCATING him. Thanks for the input.

M 32 H 39
SS 15, SD 12, S11, S9, D7, D6, D4
E/A 02/06 WAS 03/06 RH 05/06
On 07/07 told me he wants to leave again.
On 08/11/07 Walked out again.

People say "When God closes a door he opens a window." They forget to tell you "It is hell in the hallway!"