Originally Posted By: saffie


Do you think OW is actively participating in this or that your H is stalking her?


Saffie -

Good question, but does it really matter? He was there. She was there. And they were not expecting lwb to be there.

The real risk is if her husband thinks lwb is stalking him. And she is not.

Originally Posted By: saffie

I think the 48hr rule would work well here - it gives then time to squirm.


I was thinking the same thing. Imagine the tension OW will feel at home tonight.... wondering if he got a call from lwb.