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[LuvMyHusband]

Hey! I didn't know there was an official name for that club. My H belongs to it too. Good one Mark. Good morning all.

[SueS]

Good morning lwb-

I'll add my Happy Hump Day greetings to Mark's. I would also like to join the "My Spouse Rewrites History Club". My H hasn't said anything recently, but I've heard some good ones! I just try to counter it in my mind by thinking of a good time we had....and we have had a lot. His best one is to tell me I'm not fun. WHAT?? Just because I'm a little more reserved than you doesn't mean I'm no fun. I've been from coast to coast with you, from baseball/football stadium to concert venues. I've ridden the Big Shot on top of the Stratosphere in Vegas. Hell, I even danced on a table at Dennis Rodman's club in Newport Beach. I'll admit, I'd had a few and I do get a little red in the face when that gets brought up......but don't tell me I'm not fun!!

Sorry for the vent and hijack on your thread. Just got a little worked up for a second!!

Have a great day. SueS

[LL44]

Ok. I am shaking.

I was running my errands. Pulled into the library parking lot to go check out "Love Must Be Tough" and there is OW's car. I remember its story time and do the math. I can avoid her because she is in a room, run in, get the book and get out. I get out of the car, and lo and behold, there is H's car, right next to hers. I go inside (after hesitating on what I should do). H is sitting in the library by himself, reading a home improvement book. Obviously waiting for OW to get out of the storytime (another part of the library, I wouldn't have gone in otherwise).

H: (complete look of surprise when I sit down next to him)

Me: I didn't realize what day it was til I got to the parking lot.

H: (still speechless)

Me: (staring at him)

H: (closes his book) I'm gonna go.

Me: No. I'm gonna go (walked out)

He followed me out but I ignored him. I pulled out, called his cell, told him I need time alone, to pick up D3 from school and don't come here.

F*cker. I am so angry right now. How ironic, I go to pick up a book for bad marriages and the REASONS for my book were parked next to me.

Help.

[LL44]

48 hour rule on calling OW's H........48 hour rule on calling OW's H........48 hour rule on calling OW's H........48 hour rule on calling OW's H........48 hour rule on calling OW's H........48 hour rule on calling OW's H........

[Larrynarry]

WOW!!!

I think you did great... could've been alot worse!!

Sorry to hear that happened.

[Larrynarry]

Yeah... Don't do that... only make things worse.

You have any more errands to run? Make yourself busy.. right now!!

[SallyM]

lwb, see your e-mail.

saffie, you almost always make me see things differently than I do on first glance. any thoughts, other than the obvious one we are all jumping on?

[saffie]

((((((((HUGS))))))))

Do you think OW is actively participating in this or that your H is stalking her? Is that a really stupid question?

Well done on not calling OW's H - although I think that is the correct thing I also know that's what I would have done!!!

Saffie

[SueS]

lwb-

Sweetie, I'm so sorry. You did good. Take the time to breathe. I can feel my chest tightening just thinking of how you're feeling. Just breathe. Take that time to yourself. Good for you for telling H to pick up D3.

Yes, 48 hours on calling her H. I'm sure they'll both be expecting it before that.

I wish I could give you a huge hug right now. I am sorry.

SueS

[JAK58]

LWB,

(((((((((HUGS)))))))))

Don't call it only makes you look bad.

Need to go dark.

JAK