okay, my perfectionist behavior once again steals the day. H has been trying to build the fence but just having problems. the posts are level perfect for the gate and he just can't figure out how to make it work, the fence boards were put practically in the dirt so the gate will have to be 2 inches higher just so it can swing out, or else dig out the dirt in the way, and of course I have to point stuff out and he says, just call somebody tomorrow and have them make it, I can't do it. so not very good on my part. so I did say that the fence looked really good and I really wouldn't know what to do either. I mentioned looking at a neighbors fence and we did that and he feels more confident in doing it again now.

I like being a perfectionist in the fact that when I do something, I don't do a crappy job at it, but then it's annoying when other people DO a crappy job and your a perfectionist looking at it finding every little flaw and it bugs the HECK out of you! although I am over the crooked boards in the back from when my dad and H did that part of the fence 2 years ago.

I'm crazy. ;\) it'd probably help if I was getting out doing things. I can't wait till my back is healed enough again so I CAN do that again.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."