Quote: One thing we discovered on Sunday was that niether of us likes the way each other kisses
Jen, I am so glad you posted about this! Just one of those things where the planets are in line I guess. I've been thinking about this very thing and have been struggling with how to go about brooching the subject with my h. In my case it actually is the more intimate kissing. I really want to enjoy his kisses and even more so when Sooner posts about how intimate it is. But I don't like the way he kisses (my h, not Sooner)! I've always hesitated to mention it for fear of hurting his feelings. I think I'll go for the lighthearted, fun approach you're using. It's worked well for us in the past on other things. It just didn't occur to me to use it in this situation for some reason. THANKS!!
I'm betting your h's interest is going to be returning. Don't stress about it. Just give him the space and time he needs to work through this at his own pace. If my h had said something like your h, I'd have probably just said, "Okay, I'll probably try to get you interested more than once a week if you won't bother you. But if you want to turn me down, that'll be fine. We can just try again another time."
Thanks again for the kissing post. I'm looking forward to some practicing!
Just one of those things where the planets are in line I guess. I've been thinking about this very thing and have been struggling with how to go about brooching the subject with my h. In my case it actually is the more intimate kissing. I really want to enjoy his kisses and even more so when Sooner posts about how intimate it is. But I don't like the way he kisses (my h, not Sooner)! I've always hesitated to mention it for fear of hurting his feelings. I think I'll go for the lighthearted, fun approach you're using. It's worked well for us in the past on other things. It just didn't occur to me to use it in this situation for some reason. THANKS!!
