Yeah,....people stuff helps me too. Unfortunately my job these days (even though it's now in the city and i get to go home every night) is not so much about people any more so I have to motivate myself instead of relying on external emergencies to keep my distracted from my sitch. I know I overanalyse too much but....
My h has already moved out. He has been out since Jan but was living with a work colleague until he fell out with her (she truly was just a friend - I actually think she may have been trying to knock some sense into him RE our marriage but he didn't take kindly to it amongst other reasons) and then he was sleeping on another friends' couch (wouldn't you know it, another female - but not shagging her either) for a couple of weeks and now he has just last week moved into a one b'room apartment in a suburb north of here. I know what suburb but I don't have his address. Do I need to know his address? Should I ask him for it or just wait and see if he gives it to me. He has gone dark on me now as well. there just seems to be no room for middle ground in this relationship. It's either drama drama drama or no contact. *sigh*
I'm so envious that your r'ship is good when you guys have some space. I think ours is pretty much over. I don't know how to be friends with him, I feel like he keeps overstepping the boundaries for what is appropriate. I wonder if I had met him for the first time this year (instead of knowing him since I was 17) if I would even like him. I'd still be fascinated with him, but I think I'd be wary enough of him that I wouldn't get into a r/ship with him. He's so clever and wonderful, I just don't think he's wonderful in the way he interacts with me.
