What i think is that no one ever fully detaches. To a great extent yes but not fully. Not when you are trying to piece and not when your H or w lives in the same house. I guess that is why i let H's actions and words confuse me. I do know I will be Happy though either way.
J
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
