Im sorry things are not going well. I can't imagine how you must feel. Lwb is right though, if you do want to save anything, I think it would push her away, but my opinion is there does need to be ground rules, and i think what she is doing is going to totally mess them up beyond confusion.
I hope you are able to find a balance somewhere..
Blessings~
tal
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