Separated and W has a BF.

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Oh, so she watches all four of them while he works? Oh yeah, that might get old. See, that is 'real life', and our WAS's don't like real life, it interferes with their secret fantasy world too much.

"Why can't we be in the same house.. it's not fair"

Does your D say this about OM's kids, or the fact that you and your W aren't in the same house? Either way, ouch.