Like I was telling Sooner this morning, the sexual revival must be a combination of the frequency and the passion, not necessarily intensity of lovemaking but the inbetween intercourse days should be sexual in a way. It’s hard to explain. Make a man realize how much you desire and respect him and he will melt at your feet. At least that’s how I’d work if my wife would be putting forth the effort that you are.
It is quite possible that the starvation went on too long for your husband and he truly has developed a lowered sexual metabolism, which in my opinion, is a dysfunction in itself. Now you are going to have to be willing to work harder to revive his passion and ardor. It is definitely doable. You have to be absolutely sincere and willing to stretch yourself beyond your comfort zone. Try initiating in ways and places that you couldn’t have imagined before. Push yourself. Rub him under the table in a restaurant, greet him at the door half naked after a shower with a sultry look in your eye, wake him up in the middle of the night with a bj...in other words, get a bit crazy, let go...use your incredible female powers.
I think the case is more likely that he is really hurt and ticked at living with Mrs. Freeze for so long. It may take some time but I can’t imagine any angry guy surviving the onslaught of his horny wife on the warpath. Take some aphrodisiacs yourself (try Damiana and Muira Puama, niacin and zinc are good too) and study the feelings of longing and ache that he probably experienced before. That should also help you understand his despair and the subsequent sexual rejection that seems to be happening now. How ironic that the thing he wanted most was no longer needed by the time he got it. I could see that happening with me. If only my wife were as aware as you are, her spark would hit my gasoline and the resulting passionate explosion would destroy all doubt. Be sincerely sexy, he won’t resist.
