Wish I could concentrate on work for longer than three minutes at a time. This is ridiculous. I sit on here all day waiting to see if people have replied or trawling other threads to find someone in a similar position to me. I am spending waaaay too much time dwelling on this situation. How do I stop??
If you figure it out, please let me know - I spend so much time at work just reloading the forum to see if there is that one little spark of hope that I can take with me to work on my M.
I really don't have a good answer. Keeping busy with other stuff, particularly 'people' stuff helps me. My W and I used to do pretty much everything together - In many ways we still do, even though we're having problems. I'm trying to find people to talk to and things that keep my mind active, but it's really tough. My W was out of town last week so I was home alone with my D, and it was a lot easier to not think about it. I still read a lot and posted here, but I didn't feel so 'desperate'.
It sounds like you're in a very similar position to me - They're moving out. I'm really hoping that my DBing and everything will improve when we're separate. At least in my sitch she's still somewhat open to working on stuff further down the road, and our relationship was AWESOME when she was out of down - Talked every day, e-mails and instant messenger. It was so relieving for both of us to have some space to ourselves.
I know it doesn't help to hear it, and we all still have the same feelings, but I thought that maybe it would be helpful to know that others are in the same position and they don't have a clue either
