The one good thing is I have dropped a few pounds!! Nothing like the DB diet!!! I is so hard to talk sometimes, especially with my h as he is the one who pushes things under the rug, and that for me was what the problem was, it truly hadn't be resolved, and to be honest, he still truly doesn't get what my problem was. He was saying alot about me trying to control who he talks to, and have him come to me for permission, but that wasn't it at all. I think for me it was him putting me first, that he should think is what I am doing really appropriate, and think about me instead of putting himself first, and I think finally this may have gotten through to him alittle bit, at least the seed is planted. I still believe is is going to continue to talk to this person, and I hope it will die down on its own. but I realize i have to let it go, or it will eat me alive!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!