Amen brother, I know exactly what you're talking about! I'm going f*****ing insane (pardon my abreviated French). 15 years ago 1-2 a day was my goal; that quickly turned into a joke. Now 1-2 a week would be a miracle worthy of becoming a monk. I can't believe how many people are suffering from this low libido spouse epidemic. No wonder half of our marriages are failing.