Poe, I will try to start a new thread to explain my situation further. I haven't had time to respond to NOPkins, unfortunately I can only respond when I am work. (my husband took our home computer) Anyway, NOPkins-your insight and wisdom has touched me more than you could know. I am so happy to hear that things are going well for you. I have no doubt that you and your wife will have all of the happiness that you desire (and deserve)