I know it won't work between them. It's just how long that takes and where I'll be in my life at that point.
Jar,
THIS IS THE MOST INPORTANT THING TO REMEMBER. You are doing great. The light will come on to our spouses. They will see they were CRAZY. I too just hope I will not have moved to far past when this happens.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know