Trying- Just stopped in, and wanted to say a couple of things. First, I'm sure the hair looks great - who cares what H did or did not say, it's for YOU; Second, I think we can all relate to the uncertainty and doubt, and feel for you 100%. One thing I have learned through my experience - trust your gut. I felt like I've always had a good sense of people, situations, etc. I actually began doubting myself this summer because of my situation. To the point of going to counselling myself, to see where my confidence had went - I can't say the individual counselling did much for me, though. In the end, I learned that you should trust yourself - if something does not feel right, it probably isn't. Now, that's not saying *every* paranoid thought is correct, but the initial gut feeling has been in my case. How to act upon your instincts, well that is a whole separate question - but I will never doubt my 'senses' again. My W and I have our first MC session this afternoon. Initially I was very excited to get things rolling, but I still have all of the same doubts I had before, resentment, hurt, etc... Is she going through this for the right reasons. I guess I'm hoping the MC sessions will flush this out one way or another. I hate the thought of living in this land of doubt, I just want answers, I'm know you can relate. Take care, Chin up B
P.S. If you master that voodoo thing, I'd certainly pay top dollar for that handbook
