Thanks RHW.. I hear what you are saying, but at this point there is no other way to see what she is doing. I'm being systematically replaced. She's always ran away from her problems. I should've seen this coming. I know it won't work between them. It's just how long that takes and where I'll be in my life at that point. It's probably a good thing that she is getting more public with this. I'd almost bet that her folks will not approve. Especially her M. I also know that I'm feeding their R everytime I react like this. That's one thing that has to stop.
I need them to see what they have without any influence from me.
Easier said then done. It's the heat of the moment that gets me. I need to implement the 48 hour rule ASAP.
BTW... I just got the book "Love must be tough" the section on infidelity is spot on.. very interesting.
