Thanks all... it's hard. She's trying to replace me and that hurts. I told her when she wanted to be "friends" that I was worried about that. She has a bad history of using/abusing/ignoring her friends. Since we've been together, she's never really had any decent friends. The one's she had before our R were abusive and used her, and all of the women she met through me (who would be ideal friends) she would feel intimidated by and never call etc.
