I have read some of your other posts. I have admired them and you, very much.
In one of your posts, I recall something about questions as to why you "stick it out" when you are an attractive woman and the "field" is replete with fine specimens :-)
I know why you stick it out, and why I would only consider alternate possibilites if every other tolerable (even barely) option were exhausted.
When I was younger and unmarried, I had a female friend. Her sex drive and mine were very similar. She was understandably very selective with her partners. Back in the early seventies, a large sex drive could be a potential source of "large" problems. Over time, we started having sex together. She would call and want to see me, or I would call. Basically, it became a monogomous relationship that was a friendship, albeit with lots of sex. We took care of each others "needs" for the better part of 2 years. What ended the sexual part of the relationship was me meeting my future wife. Our friendship eventually waned since it was largely based on sexual needs.
My point is this. Sex is good and fun and an essential part of life for most of us. Sex with the one you love, your life partner, the love of your life, simply can't be replaced by sex of the casual variety. Period. Obviously, LL knows this and continues to persue her true love. I continue to persue mine.
I am inspired by your posts, LL. You go girl. Use a frying pan if you need to beat some sense into him.
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
