Nikki-
You are doing so awesome! You are doing something I just can never imagine doing; being able to live in the same house with my H who is actively trying to not be my H. You are very strong.

Re the color- without seeing it, it's hard to say, but here are some ideas- a lighter shade of the same green (if you like it). What type of decor do you like? (ie Japanese, rustic, victorian, etc.) Know that can help. OR, since the room is so small-- get an area rug that you love for the area(s) that you can see, and decorate from that.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing