Glad to hear you had a good convo and that the H sounds positive. I guess at the heart of it all, he is still your best friend, eh?
Yes, at the heart of it all, I think he is. Pretty much what I want (if I really want it) he will support me in (with the exception of the marriage, I guess.) I wanted a nose job, he made sure it happened. I was the one that got the first new car, years back. He supported me in staying home with the kids. He supported me in my personalized ceramics business. He supported me in getting my real estate license. He has supported me in my bead business. And then with the house thing--I am sure if I had said I REALLY wanted to move there, it would have happened.
He has said the "we got married for the wrong reasons" speech; BUT he has never said "I don't love you"- and he always maintains "I love you a great deal, I will always love you." "There is no question that I love you."
Why we can't somehow put this together is so odd to me.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
