Hi all! I am still dark with the contact but not with the phone. We talked but only about the kids. I got the kids portraits back from JCPenneys and thought about giving H a framed one for his birthday tomorrow but then another trigger. Where the heck does he even sleep? Is he living with this mistress? Is he still couch surfing? Does he sleep on a boat with his dead beat friend? No, where the heck would he hang a framed picture???
No. we'll just bake him some cupcakes.
I do fret over his Bday card. Wondering what to actually write. He sounds so depressed and I hear he looks awful. I am sure his life must be so empty and shallow. I know he must blame me while also feeling guilty. How long can this R/ affair last if he really has nothing to offer? I guess he has to hang on to OW since he has lost everyone else's respect.
The betrayed wife on Oprah wrote a poignant letter to the OW. She ended the letter by saying, "You are worth much more than to have a man that would leave his wife and children. From one woman to another, I know you can do better than to have a man like that." Or something like that!!!
BTW, one of my students stood up and cried after readingher journal entry about her father. She wrote that she never sees him but that he calls her once a week. She said she misseshim a lot. Sooo sad! So the girl next to her hugged her and said, "I miss my Dad too. I haven't seen him since I was threee. But he kind of died." Then she shrugged her shoulders and smiled. It was so sweet.
Last edited by mkultra; 10/24/0705:31 AM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
