I cannot thank you enough for your posts..Wow..they really made me smile..
However, I am having a very bad night..
After my post I decided to do some computer work..I am thinking of refinancing as my XH has a buyout from the house due in a year..I am researching my options as I am a planner..
Anyway, I decided to do a credit check. You know, those free reports with Experian, etc.
I go on my report and was happy to see it in pretty good shape. Then, I go on my personal history as part of the credit check. I see a new address listed for me..(unknown address)
I start to panic..Identity theft..my worst nightmare..someone is screwing around and using my name, etc. Then I look more closely at the town and think wow, that is really close to my XH.
Then I GET SO PISSED I ACTUALLY THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO HAVE TO GO TO THE HOSPTIAL TO GET MY BLOOD PRESSURE CHECKED..
I found the OW's address listed under MY CREDIT REPORT.
Yup, she must have filled out some type of financial document and put MY NAME ON IT.
I am so done..
I knew she was a bitch but I never knew it would go this far.
I called my friend who is a police officer and asked for advice.
Tomorrow I am filing a report. I am going to the town the p.o. box is listed and showing i.d. and filing with them and then I am going to my L.
She is going to get her ass thrown in jail for this.
Do I find satisfaction in this? No I don't. It is scary to think she really, really wants to be me. In fact, I told my XH this EXACT SAME THING TODAY in counseling..I said she has my life!
Little did I know it may be literally!!
Okay..I am pretty good right now. I am intellectualizing this sh** but I am going to nail her to the wall.
I spoke to my XH about this very nicely today as I didn't really understand what was going on..He said to me he used that p.o. box for a little while and it was probably some type of credit card or something that did this. (all cards were cancelled in 2005 by my sweet XH so that is b.s) So, he was lying but I know he will throw her under the bus when this sh** comes to the surface. I know this has something to do with hiding money..I just know it..and I could tell my XH was panicked..So, I guess karma is coming around..
I am just trying to rack my brain as to why she did this? Are they hiding money? Is she forging checks addressed to me? What do you all think?
