Yeah that is true. He could be only telling her what he thinks she wants to hear. It's so hard to not take it personal though. : (
LWB,
Then you know the pain. I feel he makes me out to be a monster to people. Oh well I guess he has to do something to try and justify this. That way if we split up people will think we had so many problems and I was mean.
Journaling,
Today I went and got my hair cut. Was feeling good about myself. I wanted to try something different so had length cut off. My husband just looked at me and gave me this look. I asked if he liked it and he said I don't like shorter hair. It is to my shoulders. I felt like saying ohh but the OW has shorter hair and you told her how sexy she was. But I didn't. I actually didn't react. Our daughter was nominated for a big award that she was receiving tonight. He went but might as well have not been there. He is just so distant and angry these days for the most part. It's like he couldn't wait to get out of there. That is so not like him. I almost feel like he wants out but feels trapped by the kid's. Deep down he don't want to be the bad guy and walk away. I think he tries to push to get me to leave. I may be wrong but that's how I feel anyway.
