Sue, see I see OW as seeing me and thinking "I had your H, and he still wants me, not you". But that is probably my self esteem issues, which I have had serious issues with since the bomb.
lwb-
Okay, I do completely understand your feelings....truly I do. However, you need to turn those feelings around. Seems to me that if OW was proud of what she's done or happy then she wouldn't be sliding out side doors at school. She'd be the one confident enough to walk around with her head held high. I know what you're feeling. I feel it at times too, but you are an amazing woman, mom, lady...etc. You feel good physically, you've been buying new (smaller) clothes. As bad as it is that we forcibly go on the infidelity diet, I think that's what gives me a little more confidence & self esteem. The weight loss and looking good. I still have more to go (went for a LONG walk tonight), but I know I look better than I did when this whole damn thing started.....and I know my H notices it too!
Sorry to ramble, but KEEP YOUR CHIN UP. You've helped me through a lot and I'm going (as are many others) to stay here and help you through this. We love our LWB!
SueS
Last edited by SueS; 10/24/0701:14 AM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
