I guess this is my issue...up until recently she has been very quiet about this new R. It seems lately that she's starting to be OK with it. Her friends now know about it (new drinking friends that is). And now she's going to expose the kids. I would imagine next would be parents.
That's why I'm discouraged... it's starting to head in directions I have no control over and don't like. I guess that's my controlling/manipulative behaviour.
