I have always done the bills, we both have access to all information but I do the bills. I don't mind it at all. He can have access to any/all of my info if he wanted it, so he wouldn't be getting any 'new' info by ordering our phones. I just don't understand it.

Sue, see I see OW as seeing me and thinking "I had your H, and he still wants me, not you". But that is probably my self esteem issues, which I have had serious issues with since the bomb.

Thanks for weighing in everyone. I am still confused, but rolling with it on the outside.