Time for healing without closing the door

[new_attitude]

Ya see new_att that whenever I have tried in the past to set up a schedule he comes back with, "I can't do that. My job requires that I work early mornings and late evenings" What he also points out is that because he is a personal trainer, 'normal' peoples leisure time is his work time so he is just not available for long periods of time. Add onto that that he will be as flexible as possible for his clients (because he is starting out in the industry and needs to build up his client base - he says) but when it comes to dd (or me, back when I was trying my ar5e off) it's "sorry I have to work".

Does that mean that he doesn't know his schedule in advance at all? That would make it tough.

Maybe I should accept his overtures of friendliness instead of being hyper-anxious/suspicious/paranoid. It'll just be hard if he 'tries it on' as I'll be tempted to spit the dummy.

I'm American, so I have no idea what that last sentence means!

Does it sound like cake eating on his part or do you think he might actually regret ending things? maybe I should ask him this?

I wouldn't ask him right now, he probably has no idea. Try to focus on you! Hang in there!