Maybe you should consider not seeing him anymore. Maybe you should go out to concerts and to expensive dinners with some interseting and good men. Maybe he needs a taste of what he is really missing. He obviously has very little self respect and feels more comfortable with people of low morals. He needs to rise to be on your level. Force his hand and show him what he is missing. Tell him you do not want to see him anymore. Or not. Plan A is not working so go to Plan B. Go Dark and see what happens. No more R talk. He just gets all defensive and confusing. Breathe.
I think it is great that you laugh at his jokes but he creepd me out with that "look" comment. What an ego. I also hate it when dudes think we are too good for them so they need someone stupider, lazier, uglier, younger, needier. It is as if we have to be punished for being too good for them.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."