Mark....what do you mean that it's "obvious"? Maybe a dumb question on my part.

Have Faith...I agree that a lot of A's die a natural death. I just wish we didn't have to be the ones sitting here waiting and hurting. My H had a PA 6 years ago & it took 8 months. This EA/possible PA....about 5 months now. Can I stand 3+ more months?

lwb- So glad Pizza Day was good and that you didn't have to see OW. Part of me would have wanted her to see me AGAIN to remind her that through all the problems, my H is still MY H for now. Kind of a slap of reality. Am I making sense? I just see it that if the OW doesn't have to see us, they can keep the A as a fantasy kind of deal. If they see us, they have to think of us, how happy we look, how GOOD we look, how our H's are at home with us. Are you starting to get the impression that I'd like a shot at seeing my H's OW?? Just once, just once.

Hope you have a good evening. Are you working tonight?

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day