I haven't given S enough.... for tonight I heard why he is angry and bitter.
S believes I have called CA's SRS (his words) and told them he is too young to drive, there are guns in the house, his father is an alcholic, he also claims he saw my name on the paperwork too. He also said the only reason I called the SRS in CA was because I was angry about loosing $500/month in child support because he moved out there. He told me both Dick and Jane both knew about the child support reduction because it was announced in court during the hearing. (I had no idea what they did or were going to do about the child support, I didn't hear any announcement during the hearing nor has my attorney called me to tell me what the child support was going to be.) According to him, Dick and Jane both knew when they left the court room.
Also, I almost got him in trouble for under age driving, (he won't be 16 until the end of November) yet he is driving to and from school. If I cared, I would just leave him alone and stop trying to cause him trouble.
He told me he talks to Jane every night, that she is a better Mother than I am, and is better to him. That I need to get used to the fact Dad is married to Jane, and need to get over it. He never, ever wants to hear from me again.
Obviously, I didn't call, but have been worried about him driving in CA, because I know he really isn't ready to drive in a town that large, with the sort of traffic that comes with a city that size. Yet, the only one I mentioned it to was my attorney.
I've lost him, there is nothing I can do, Dick and his techniques have over powered everything we had for the past 15 years.....
What am I supposed to do, I'm so afraid I've lost him for good.
Laughing
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........