Myturnow - there are some truly awesome people on these boards, who don't get whiny, and can write without self pity about their experience.

You amaze me, the way you can write with honesty, and compassion. and humour. "He is his own hobby" . That could desrbie so man of these MLCers.

I am not surprised you are feeling ill. Emotional stress really rips into you. And I am happy that you have a wonderful new guy.
He sounds so nice.

Take care, Angelica