Hardly faking it anymore: Puddle's third thread

[Puddle]

Hey Nomo,

Maybe he is DBing you.

LOL!

"I'm married... I have kids.

This he knows, from before.

It's all pretty recent, so I am not rushing into anything, and I wanted you to know my sitch. I like spending time with you, and would like to spend more with you, but I have no intention of getting into a R or even dating any time soon.

This makes perfect sense. For tonight, just hanging out, no "I like spending time with you..."

But I'm not your lawyer

You're not H's lawyer either, are you?

and this is all anonymous. Can't we all just have some fun around here for crying out loud???

Hey, hey now. Let's just say that I was muuuch more adept at the physical than the emotional side of things. Often. And with more than a couple wonderful guys.

Did you ever see Best in Show? (If not, rent it now.) There's a scene where Eugene Levy, talking about his wife (Catherine O'Hara) says something like, "She was something back then. Had dozens of boyfriends," and O'Hara says, totally deadpan, "Hundreds." Levy says, "Hundreds. I did not know that." Great movie.

And know, I wouldn't introduce them until W and I were D'd.

Makes sense.

Shall I offer your help?

I'd love it.

Done. Watch your email for an appt from H.

What?!?!?!?! Now I'm a stalker?!?!?!?! Just having some fun!

Oh relax. Actually seeing the two of you toe to toe could be fun.

I agree, which is why I'd feel bad if this guy unwittingly gave H particulars, and at the same time set himself up for some weirdness at the place without having any idea what's going on.

What particulars? "Hey, H, I saw Puddle at the hangout. We had beers, and chatted. Sorry you guys are getting D'd."

No, see, we're going someplace else. I'm thinking if he *later* said at the hangout, "Hey, I met Puddle for drinks." And H happened to be there, or someone who would mention it to H. He doesn't know H, wouldn't recognize him if they were sitting next to each other. That's the kind of unwittingly I'm talking about.

And, maybe, "Mind if I kiss her?" Sorry - couldn't resist.

LOL again! Now that'd be a scene. I'm sure H would say, "Nope, go right ahead."

Makes perfect sense. Been there; done that. And for those very same reasons!!

Good. I hope it goes as well as it has for you (but not in the same way...ugh, you know what I mean).

Uh, yeah. You should have seen me around here before I slowed down. And I have really slowed down. First month - 1000 posts!!! :0 Second month - 600. Slowed down more and more since then.

I'm impressed. I know you've slowed down a lot, but I feel like I post all the time, and I'm nowhere near 1,000, even after two months.

We'll be looking forward to the date report tonight!

I'll have to polish my creative writing skills.

Hugs,
Nomo

Right back atcha. Take care.