Separated and W has a BF.

[Yoyowife]

Jar,
Hang on it will be a rocky road. I swear their moods change with the wind. Just be your nice normal self without being a doormat. Don't pursue or beg. Her attitude will change. She will see that "He" is not as great as she thinks he is.

Actually getting all the kids together (his and hers) might not be a bad idea. Have you ever noticed how other people's kids get on your nerves far more than your own. There certainly will be bickering. Hmmmm.....this might be good.