I haven't read the articles, but perhaps I will. I feel like I'm pretty sympathetic toward H (though less when he was being such a dolt, I admit), while recognizing he's responsible for the choices he's making. A hormonal element? Maybe.
Actually, I feel like that might make me ever so slightly more willing to consider working on things, were H ever to make that move. But for now, we're in full-on S mode. I'll bear it in mind, though, thanks.
