Hi Puddle,
I just found the new thread and wanted to jump in and say hey. One quick comment for now...

Originally Posted By: Puddle


Originally Posted By: Nomopo
Is he MLC? Have you considered that?


I thought about that a bit, especially at the beginning, but quickly decided it didn't really matter. Wondering about that just caused me to spend time analyzing him, wondering what he's thinking here or there, and I gave it up. He may well be.


I know you told me the same thing earlier about mlc not mattering, but reading up on mlc has enabled me to step back a bit from the insanity and realize that h's decisions of late could have a biological/hormonal basis. Although I'm not shifting all of the blame away from me (far from perfect wife here!), I know it's not all about me. This allows me to be a bit more sympathetic that I would have otherwise. Have you read some of the linked articles on the mlc forum?

Have fun tonight (but not too much fun!)


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08