My advice for right now would be not to rock the boat on this issue but wait and see if she does indeed file next month. Then you can bring it up then as being one of the things that you would like. I think that seems fair and reasonable since you are still paying for them. Did she buy your ring or did you?
I wasnt going to ask for them until she filed the papers and they are served. She did buy my ring and that is why I would return mine to her. I did receive a call from her mother last night, she was worried about me and wanted to know how I was doing and if i was okay. Her mother is against the whole divorce and she is really disappointed with my W. She tells me not to give up and maybe things will change. I told her about a marriage seminar that I found that I would like to attend with my W. She said that would be great if we could go but the challenge will be getting my W to actually go. She said that she will try to talk to her into going with me, even as a last request. Today is going good...so far.