At this point the A has to die a natural death. If he would have been willing to give it all up at the beginning, then that is a different story. He wasn't. It will die, it just takes patience. My H's took 11 months. Hopefully for you and your children it won't take that long. Don't try to stop it. It won't help.
Hang in there and be nice, even if it is the hardest thing you do. If you truly want to be back together, he has to see you as being nice. If you aren't, it only validates why he should leave.
Faith.
H 48 W 57 M 15 yrs T 18 yrs No children EA 1/12/06 Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07 Back on 5/18/07 2nd Thread
