Is it at all possible that the two of you can sit down and say, "okay you pay this bill, I'll pay that one...." sort of thing?

My H who has been gone for over a year took it upon himself to pay all of the bills with the exception of my cell, internet, home phone, and groceries.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19