Your pt is to make something happen by my actions vs. letting it just drift and drift and fall apart.
Nope, my point is quit trying to make things happen in any way, and focus on you and what you want/need. That is giving her the time and space she needs, and its your only chance. Quit trying so hard, CVA. Let go of the rope. Quit banging your head against the wall. It's the only chance you have! And if it doesn't work out, it's how you'll be best off. Make sense?
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M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link