CVA - Not sure I have figured anything out?

[Not Much Left]

Thanks Nomo and Puddle.
Nomo
The "This" is just letting things happen vs. taking action. Your pt is to make something happen by my actions vs. letting it just drift and drift and fall apart.

Puddle
To your question, No she *never* brings up anything. Almost has dwindled to not even small talk, which leads me to believe things are not going well at all.

On the house thing, unfortunately I will have a lot of fun furnishing it so....not money well spend unless we get D'd.
I have this sneaking suspicion the contracting of redoing a house would get me in a worse place although I'v always wanted to prove to myself that I can get this done on my own and make all the decisions vs. waiting for W to make one which is torture.

Thanks again, appreciate it.